Z,
I guess I'm behind on what has been happening with you...

I didn't realize sex was still not going well. It would be so much better if you could talk about it. I know there are the medical reasons, but some of it is probably mental as well.

Have you tried to initiate foreplay with him? I mean make it a little fun for the both of you?

Me 47
Ex H 46
Bomb 9/02
D final 3/04
Ex H now married to OW

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