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I would not give him a present or a card.
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BAM! another mistake!!!
Cadet, your post just came a little too late...its a pitty!!!(I think its because I am still in moderation plus due to our time difference (7hrs.)I think, I live here in Europe) It's friday already here 19April and its his b-day. I just gave him his present.

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Please have NO EXPECTATIONS.

Yes, I prepared myself to that...had no expectations at all!
Actually, his reaction came out fine...better than I thought.
He look happy and thanked me and said nice "chic" about my gift...and gave my a thank you kiss (on the cheek)
He read the contents of the bday card silently at first but then read loudly the part of which my son wrote...and smiled!
Although I just wrote simply Happy Birthday. I hope you are happy and have a great day today and always! (my name)
I asked him jokingly..."so where's the party?" (Maybe another mistake?).... of which he just replied..."Nope! No party plans!"


Me50 H53 S22
M23
2007 1st BD
May 2011 2nd BD
Aug 2011 Moved out(wants space)
Feb 2012 came back (wants to work things out)
Sept2012 moved out
Oct 2012 found out OW but denies
March 2013 Admits OW