So I've finally come to the conclusion that me and my W are not gonna work. She already has OM has stood firm she wants a D and not looking back. I've also realized that she's not only left me 3 xs but has left my children 3 xs and I don't need for me or my children to be be in this type of toxic M.

Here's my weird scenario and how to handle it. Since she's left in January we haven't even gone a week without some type of communication. And I'm trying to detach but not be ignorant at the same time. How do I tell her to stop calling or do I just totally ignore her. She was calling and texting last night while I was at the gym. So then I texted this morning, what did she need. Her response was to see what she had left in the house. She could of just texted me that???

Me:34
W:26
Together:5yrs
M:6/4/11
1st bomb 11/11
2nd bomb 1/21/13
W files for D 3/18/13
She's living with her mom
S:13 Previous marriage
S:11 Previous marriage
She has OM Previous FWB