I think, to an extent, our Hs feel a lot of guilt. If they could see we "moved on" it would solidify their thinking in that they were right to go and OW is okay, because now we have someone too.
DING DING DING, winner winner chicken dinner!!! At least in my opinion, everything they say is all based out of guilt and shame. They know they are blowing up a family so... guilt and shame. Throw in a good dose of fear and the inability to cope with life and we get a mess. However we must move on in a loving way, call it karma or whatever I think we get what we project out. If we project love and kindness we will get that back. We just have to learn to deal with disappointments and setbacks in life. Hugs turtle
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
