From a recent error in my sitch I can vouch for this

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ny gesture, any overture from you will indeed be seen as pursuit by your H and he will mover farther from you, not closer.


I bought some little gifts to help W relax after a long weekend. And even though it was done as a kind gesture not a loving gift, it pushed her further away for a few days.

Me: 38 W: 35
M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs
S8 D5
BD: Feb 13
Still Living Together

I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.