"It came to a point gradually where I started to make decisions and doing things for myself and speaking how I felt. Not to get a reaction out of my WAW but regardless of any reaction from her."

That's exactly where I want to get back to. I hate the walking on eggshells. It has gotten better as time has gone by, but its still there.

You're right. Roadmap was wrong choice. I need to stay on my map

M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it