I agree with AJ ^^^^^. My W had said things similar when she was all guilt-ridden and the thought of even trying to set things right or whatever was overwhelming to her...the urge to run, again, was huge. They are "runners". It has passed with W, well, mostly...give it time, keep validating, being forgiving, calm, consistent...and, of course, patient. Be the wonderful you you are. I am sure the new son has his mind spinning, and he is conflicted and reeking of cognitive dissonance.
Hang in there!! T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
