I have a hard time too not letting W bait me into doing/saying stupid things. A few days ago, W walked through our bedroom, didnt speak, and went downstairs for the night. For some reason this really bothered me. I couldn't leave it alone so I went downstairs and asked her if she was staying down there for the night. She said yes. I said, you know you don't have to be rude.
This was so stupid. Only further convinced her that she didnt want to be around me. Lesson learned I guess.
We all make mistakes trying to DB. Somehow you/we need to find a way to stop shooting ourselves in the foot. Keep at it. Good luck.
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.