But Wii - lets not forget how you DID so much for her when you first met. You insisted on it. Some of us warned you not to overdo it. She was not asking for help then. But she LEARNED to become dependent on you. Maybe she even "tested" your commitment to her by seeing what she could get you to do.
There is a difference between being a nice guy & doing too much to get her to like you. Maybe you need to look at becoming too familiar too fast. Let the relationship develop. Don't stop doing nice things but when you're first dating - you don't need to be involved in resumes and driving to I tear views, jobs etc - that gets old really fast.
When you first start dating - date. Go out.have fun. Learn what you like or don't like about someone. But avoid getting too entwined too early on.
You want to learn something from this - that's what I saw from my viewpoint.
