Another stander,

Thank you for the input. So you think by me throwing in the towel will make her lose more respect for me? I am very confused because I keep reading to not argue with your WAW and to agree with the break up in order to move forward.

I did already contact my lawyer and tell her that the only thing I wanted was for the WAW to take care of all my lawyer fees and court fees as well as the last outstanding bill we have from the wedding. I feel since she is the one that wants the divorce this is not unreasonable to ask.

The reason I decided to back off on asking for the alimony is because in our last conversation, she specifically said that "it is clear that all I want out of our relationship is financial gain, and she has no interest in communicating with me at all" so that is pretty much why I am backing off.

I really do not want to give up but emotionally I am drained.....I am going back to going dark through this process and only responding if she contacts me. I am starting to really feel like she is slipping away. Any other ideas of what I should do at this point.

I am GAL, 180ing and I tried the LRT. Starting to lose hope!


Me 33
W 32
Married 10/13/12
WAW Started sleeping in spare room 1/13/13
Divorce filed 2/13/13
Seperated 3/1/13 till ?????????
Divorced 5/28/13