We think, as LBSers, "what can I do to make this, to make myself better?" The WAS thinks "Aha! THIS will make it better."
So true! I was reading DR's chapter on MidLife and thought... as much as this hurts, I'm glad I'm not the MLer! The work I'm doing on myself is hard but rewarding. I think WAS's work (if they ever start) seems scarier. I can't imagine carrying the "Affair Guilt" baggage my WAW might eventually have to haul.
Me(F):40 WAW:44 T:13yrs M:9yrs BD:2/12 (I saw a text) ILYBINILWY: 5/12 PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11) S:2/13 Moves in w/AP D begins: 7/13 W moves home to R: 10/13