Unlearning conflict avoidance 4

[25yearsmlc]

Very good question, adinva. Being more assertive also means more responsibility and knowing what you want.

Last, at least for now, session with current IC. While she was sympathetic, I didn't find her particularly useful. Was upbeat at the session, though, EE had really pumped me up.

Have found another IC, who I will meet this Friday. I travel to the States on Monday morning, gone 4 weeks, including 5 days for EE.

I found this in my diary from 1988:

Germany. I leave school, I leave home, my wife wants to live separately, a new land, a new time.
My last "free" evening. W is reading Brodkey; she likes it very much. She's filled my thoughts so much these last few days with her wanting to move out, a painful desire for me. She talks of 4 years alone-.

One hell of a marriage, I think and am so hurt and angry and sad. She'll be my "girlfriend" - demotion from wife.

So this has been going on for 25 years!

Luke

life is short Luke...truly it is. Already so much has passed.

But you CAN live better and more happily. YOU CAN BE HAPPY Luke.

EE is about taking charge of your life & getting there.

Are you ready to learn how, and to then do that?

I think so.