Absolutely. I keep telling myself that to keep from falling into the mud with W. I have to accept what is, and keep my kids at the forefront of my mind.
Originally Posted By: Mach1
All of that work from your Bootcamp thread is not wasted.
None of this is wasted time.
It has, and will, make you a better, stronger, faster Six-Million Dollar Breakdown ( although you probably won't see any of that money).
Though I am extremely hurt by my W's actions, I have thanked her on many occasions, even yesterday in this middle of this storm....for helping me find me. Her behavior pushed me to face my own demons, to become a better person. Even though she didn't do it intentionally, she did help get me started.
Originally Posted By: Mach1
Who knows what the future holds buddy...
I agree! I'm a little excited to be honest. It's being overwhelmed by hurt at the moment, but as I hurt less, more hope and excitement comes thru.
Do I want to be with a woman who lies and cheats? Hell no. If anything, I stood too long in the face of her blatant disrespect for our M. I allowed her to manipulate me, to frustrate me, to hurt me. No more.
I'm no longer standing for my M....I'm standing for me.
