I've been puzzled over the last few months about how STBX seems to time his phone calls and visits to the house to pretty much exactly to the times that I arrive home at various different times of the day and night.
A couple of weeks ago, I slipped home from work in my lunch hour to let the dogs out and, within minutes, he was knocking on the door in a rage abut financial settlement issues.
And recently, he's started appearing at the same places that the kids and I are at (supermarket, department stores).
The other day, too, he mentioned that I always go to my parents' place on Saturdays (I haven't told him this and his memory is not good under any circumstances, even if he had heard us talking about it in the past).
Now maybe I'm paranoid... but it occurred to me that he may be using the GPS tracking function on my phone to keep tabs on me.
I looked it up online to find how to switch it off and they tell you to contact the phone company - because they are the activators.
Funny thing is, STBX owns the telco that runs all our phones.
Yikes. But maybe I'm just letting my imagination run away with me.