I guess what I was trying to say is that it's the way you feel about it that should guide your actions. If you think it's the right thing to do, go for it. If you can anticipate resenting supporting him in this back off.
As to what he's thinking, it's best just not to get into that. He may be thinking any number of things, but I doubt it's either a conscious effort to use you, or to signal that he's changed his mind. Probably a jumbled mess of thoughts that is the fog of any WAS.
H: 38 xW: 38 M: 16 T: 18 S: 9 BD: 2/2012 W moved out 4/2012 D: 11/2012