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Thanks to all! The encouragement helps tremendously.

I replied with a simple "Ok. I can continue to give you time. You know what I want & I'm willing to give that to you if that's what you feel you need." He replied back with "I'm working on fixing my problems.... I need time and I think I'm getting what I need". I just said ok.

Urworthy, I know when he is going to see her because he is traveling to his corp office for work…where she is. I can give him time & space. I've been really good at not talking about us, them, our situation. I'm strong in that area. I don't bring it up, ever. I think that's why I was so taken back when I recieved that text today.

I feel like he sees my patience & me giving him space. I'm pretty good at keeping all this in my head, that's probably why I come here to vent & let out my thoughts so often. I AM a strong woman & will continue to be so for myself, daughters, & now baby.

About my daughters-what about when they ask if they can call their dad if he hasn't called? Should I let them? When he doesn't answer it hurts their feelings, & then I get upset.