SS, I have a question (as a newbie trying to understand all of this) If his wife is going to stay, why must she end the affair and make all communication systems available? I understand why she would have to do that if she wanted to stay but if she doesn't, he and still wants to work on it, isn't he supposed to worry about himself right now and making himself the "better option" as opposed to making demands she doesn't want to meet? Thank you, some of this feels like it applies to me even though there is no active A at this time.
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13
