Some expectations (not sure if they are realistic, but they are honest and I am journaling here) that I am looking for this week and at our MC:

1. I would like to hear "I love you" from her that isn't in response to me saying it first.
2. When we do our exercise tonight, I would like to hear a couple items and see that she has put thought into it. In other words, is she "into it" as well.
3. I would like to see that she has put some thought into my bday tomorrow.

Three seems like enough for now.

CB

Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"