Hey positive. I am in same situation ur in but my w doesn't know I know about the other guy. She too goes out and texes me at the last minute. We have a son your daughters age and I have spent more time and am having so much fun w him this past year. And can tell she notices. My mother inlaw has thrown out the OM name to me saying she thinks her daughter is talking to him. Your right, I didn't tell her the truth about them. I too still love my wife but everyone tells me to look at the reality of this that she might not come back. It's hard to swallow but I know that might be the case. I still have hope , and for you too.


M 43
W 35
S 6
BD 7-11
Served 5-2-13
Sep agree signed 5-12-14
Wife moves out pending refinance 5-14-14
Divorce hearing set May 2
Divorced May 2