I hear you...W and I are arranged like you and your W.
Guess this mlc of our Ws is one of those lessons in life that good as it is to roll with "God helps those who help themselves", sometimes "let go and let God" is the only sane way forward.
I have been at this long enough to have the "fix it" urges under control, but limbo is challenging my "planner" pretty darn hard.
Plan and fix what you can, accept what you can't, and wisdom to know the difference is my affirmation these days... T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm