Thanks T^2. I had a great evening out with coworkers yesterday. Good food, lots of laughs. The boys FaceTimed me while I was driving my boss and another employee across town. When we hung up W texted to ask if we were high. I told her we do this (by phone) everyday. We were cracking up, the boys were cracking up. Really fun.
It probably surprises her that three men can go out of town, not drink, be in bed by 11:00, and still have a good time. I wish they lived closer to me. Yes, even my boss. They're each at least 350 miles away.
I wish I could get to the point that I could stop thinking about the future. It's part of my personality. I plan. I make plans for years in advance. I've been planning for retirement since I got out of college. W lives in the day. Never thinking about tomorrow. We always laughed about how we countered each other but complimented also.
An mlc spouse is not good for the health of a fixer and planner.
M - 42 W- 37 S's - 9,6 M-12 T-14 FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011 ILYBNILWY - march '12 FIL - died jan '13 W Moved out week later
