she seems to be limiting any talking right now since I stopped engaging...
Talking isn't going to get you out of anything your actions got you into. Only consistent action showing her the new you will.
Stop mind reading and trying to figure out what she's doing, how she's feeling, or any of that. When we lived with our S's we thought we knew what they wanted or what mood they were in and we were obviously wrong so why do you think you can figure her out now?
Your last several posts have been all about her. Time to let her go. No one said it's easy and God knows many of us have failed at times so we speak from experience. The hurt doesn't get better if you keep holding on
Time to start talking about you and what you're doing...
Who do you want to be?
What characteristics do you admire in people that you want for yourself?
What characteristics about yourself are you proud of?
What are you doing to meet new people? Join any groups? Have you picked up any new hobbies?
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
