So at the counselor's he once again reiterated there is no hope, and I should move out.. I repeated I can't as I do have some hope and I don't want to unnecessarily displace S from his neighborhood and friends.. He said that it would not be possible to set up a new house financially and since i am so close to my folks i might as well ,move in with them .. He would otherwise support S and my financial needs .. I am a SAHM so have to depend on him fully.. He is fine with it till I stabilize myself.. He finds it so difficult to understand that I may not want to move in with my folks and is looking at this as my way of harassing him and not keeping things amicable.. Ya right ,as soon As things don't go his way.. He pushes the full custody button .. The last time he did it I was trembling like a leaf cos he said as our s is adopted he is the legal guardian on paper..post that conversation I have checked with an adoption attorney.. He said that really does not mean anything .. The court looks out for the child's best interest.. This time I was so mad I just said go ahead.. I know a non db move but couldn't help it.. Now he will ago back to tell c again to convince me.. We are going back and forth on this.. He goes,out of town to meet ow tomo.. He tells me to remove the bag from the attic as he has a back issue.. He does this with so much ease I wonder what kind of a person he has turned into.. And as for me he does not know that I know of her identity so I actually help him pack as he is going for an official trip supposedly.. I am hurting so much but will put one foot ahead of another tomo.. Take care guys
hoper me-40,H41 M-15 S-6 Looks like MLC,living together
