One more really cool thing that brought a tear to my eye. This morning, when we were getting ready in the bathroom, she said she already knows one thing she wants my forgiveness for. When I had pneumonia in January and was REALLY sick for a week, she never asked how I was doing and was really irritated at me for being home from work so long. True quote "When I had pneumonia, I only missed a day of work, get off the couch and go in." I never miss work and had a lot of people contacting me to see if I was ok, but not my wife. It hurt me and I told her a few weeks ago when she was unloading on me (see early in my thread, discussion #2).
Anyway, this morning she said that was really mean and she was taking out other resentments she was feeling on me then and she was really sorry "will you forgive me?" If I was a five-digit amputee, I could count the number of times before this that she has said she was sorry for something she did, so this was awesome!
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"