i understand that you were trying to see where he was coming from. i tried to see it from a different perspective too but the one thought that kept going through my mind was that i would never have put myself in that situation to begin with.
BF, Yes - there's no getting away from that I suppose. Sometimes I feel like he's pushing me so hard that I no longer know what's right or wrong. But hanging around in front of our kids (not to mention the kids' friends and their families who've all known us since kindergarten) like that is not something that is normal.
Thanks for your kind thoughts and understanding, it really helps.
