You're right, Im a "talker" and a problem solver so it makes it that I didnt get to talk with her tough.
I'm coming to realize that it is utmost importance that she feels head. I've realized that a major issue for her was she WAS trying to get through to me in her own ways...and I didnt see/get all of her messages...
I need to make changes or myself, first and foremost. Give her space to go on her journey, and go on mine...
It's just so hard to let go... I worry that everything she says he believes and won't change hr mind on...ever.. I need to focus on me... Somehow... Advice and support always welcome.
Talker often means controller...you know that, right? As a control freak, I can manipulate any conversation, or used to. That is why we listen, and it is one of the first things we do, to stop trying to control everything we can get our hands on.
