Oh and a slap it was. Funny, I know he feels my life has not changed at all, and really, except for the gaping hole in my life that his leaving dug, it hasn't (insert eye roll).
I feel how nice it is to be him. Work all day, have nights and weekends to self, no worries, no commitments. Have GF over whenever (not ever a consideration for me, since I would never bring another guy in house with kids here). Go out, do what you want.
But then I realize he has days like this. He must think "was it worth it?"

So, both of us got a raw deal. His a little rawer because he admitted that he expected to be happy when he left. And he is not any happier than before.

So, ya, it is time for a little "Hello....." Come back to the dark side, we have cookies.