Moth, was just catching up on your situation. Sounds like it's been tough and that you are making some real progress. That's great!

Don't have any additional advice, just encouragement.

Stay strong!

Me-48,W-51
M-22,T-24
S- 18,16,9
Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date
Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch
Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only
Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork