In my heart I never truly believed the DB could work, because once W decides on a course of action and makes up her mind, nothing and no one can change it. I
P4P-I can totally understand this. I as well feel this way. When my H was well, my true H, his decisions about things were very firm. He was one of those " once I make a decision, I never go back". That is with everything. So I find myself often thinking about that, knowing the type of person he was, and if he will be one of those that even after coming out of the tunnel will just say well, I already made my decision, and there is no going back.
So,with that said, don't be scared of your future, just go out there and make it what you want. within the circumstances. I am taking my own advice on this one...hoping I see more light soon that guides me towards my path.
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life
