Newman. I feel for you. I m in same situation going on two years and there is OM involved which she doesn't know I know. It's tough because I haven't confronted her on him. My wife as of a couple of weeks is pushing towards divorce and has no feelings for me or wants to fix things. Having family and close friends that know what is going on and that are supportive is the best thing to have. For me it's both sides if my family. Good luck to you and all if us. My prayers are w you.
M 43 W 35 S 6 BD 7-11 Served 5-2-13 Sep agree signed 5-12-14 Wife moves out pending refinance 5-14-14 Divorce hearing set May 2 Divorced May 2