Well I told her that as long as she was having the relationship I was no longer going to play the role as husband and support her. Her rent, cell, gas, etc.. Well she is pissed at me. And now I understand why maybe I shouldnt have. But I will say I feel better about myself. I feel less kicked around. It gid cause her to have to move out of her younger sisters where there is less accounatbility to her moms where there will be total accountability. So it should disrupt the affair. I feel better about where shes at. I have pushed her further in one regard though. But she is probably more pissed because I just made her face more reality of the situation. Also she feels more determined to do it on her own. But I still feel hopeful that I as continue the LRT things will improve over time, based on her living situation. Of course you always want it around the corner but i drfinitely learn you have to be patient. I dont regret doing what I did because now i feel ready to carry out LRT and GAL. Oh well will see whats in store.