Warm wishes and prayers for you BD. this is all crap. Our W's say the same stuff.

Her line: "I just want to be in a place where you aren't angry at me."

This is very, very self serving. Cake eating. Accepting this statement is saying okay to selfishness. Don't even acknowledge stuff like that. Validating someone's feelings is one thing, but validating selfishness....nah.

Look after yourself pal. I am learning that now. Maybe late in the game, but not too late.

M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.