Nastier by the day RLA. Hope you are well. Save your marriage....this is not worth it.
Today was kids first day of therapy. D10 refused to go so xW freaked on me and said for me to deal with it. i tried to explain that d10 feels abandoned but she stormed out and and sped off, but not before reminding me that she dumped me with "I didn't leave the kids, I left you!". Oddly enough it did not hurt me. Within 2 minutes I had her ready to go and took both kids and met xW there. They were in for an hour. When they came out, I think the counsellor noticed both kids came to me and d10 sat on my lap and hugged me. Then in front of the kids xW snapped at the counsellor about the fee structure. Very embarrassing....we had already agreed to it. Longer tale so in short I suggested we go to another room to talk about it. We worked that out. Then xW complained about the information we needed to provide on the consent form citing privacy. Ummmmmm.....we're going to court.....there will be a lot more open there. It was surreal. She is a stressed out mess. What a day. too much to type honestly. i am beat. I am strressed. Looking for new home. The one I wanted was sold yesterday. The hunt continues.


M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.