Is this cake eating 13

[wishing, hoping]

I thought once a child was over 14 years of age they have a say in where they go and what they do. If they are working and have school activities that makes an impact and he cannot expect them to drop everything to accommodate his schedule.

I didn't think there was anything set in stone with your case NLW. Yes talk to a lawyer and if he wants specified time with the kids then the courts can set up a schedule. My H tried to pull that crap and when we went to court I had the judge determine a definite schedule. H wasn't happy and he still isn't because it's not the schedule he determined and it conflicts with his OW time.

I will pray for you NLW. You need divine intervention. You need the law on your side. Don't worry about not being nice to your H. Protect yourself. Let him hang himself but don't let him take you down with him.

WH