luckily for me, my h said "seeing me cry, made him want to run"... from that point forward, I held in my tears.

I too have yet to read the co-d book. For some reason, its the work I dont seem to want to do for myself, would rather be focusing on h. Time to work on me. I am still learning.

Tx Mandy!

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)