One of the best things (imo) about staying out of their way is that, when it all comes a crashin' down, they cannot blame you for interfering, causing it all to not work out, etc, etc. It's all on them, and you have kept your sanity and not made things worse. Keep going! T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm