Love the PMA!
I know for me when my W came out about OM I wanted to either
A: jump off a bridge or B: throw his ass off a bridge.
So I had to very quickly accept that situation or else someone was
going to be the recipient of needless violence.
And the snooping.... nothing good there.

Love the lists btw. Keep it up!

Also thanks for the advice about my S's living sitch. W and I came up with a better arrangement. Better for S that is.

Me-36 W-31
M-7
S-5
BD Dec/12- things were wrong for awhile, head was in the sand

Seeking means: to have a goal
Finding means: to be free, to be receptive, to have no goal