I remember that it was so hard for me to have compassion for my h when he so clearly screwed up.
So I tried to remember that as hard as it was on me, it really did suckk to be him. That was some stupid sh#t he thought would work.
I mean really, I have a great idea. I'll tell my wife I dont want to be married anymore. Then I'll go find my first gf of 30 years ago who cheated on me with my best friend while living with me and have an affair. Then stay in my house for almost a year.