Update - 8 months as a "reforming" WAW

[makingmagic]

Mandy... tx for replying... a few more comments/questions?

//I WAS afraid that things would go back to the same old thing and that fear remained until I realized that I had stuff to work on too.// H has said to me many times that it would be sooo easy to get back together, but fears that things would slip back... how did your h convince you that it was safe to return? how long did this take?

//Piece of advice - Don't try to make the fear go away...try to understand where it's coming from! Hard, I know...// ... don't try to help him with his fear? (is that what you mean?), I am trying sooooo hard to be detached from his doings. We own a business together, so I see him, text, phone call alot with him. Mostly about business. Any further suggestions?

Thanks for sharing...means alot to try and understand the WAS.

So hard when I feel so rejected.