Chris, get outta your head, man.

This is a journey your wife has to see through. She needs you to understand that. Love her enough to show her you do.

Please do not mindread. I promise it will not serve you well.

No one knows what the future holds. What she feels today does not dictate what she may feel later.

So, you want to do the work so that if your wife moves towards you in the future, she sees someone with dignity and courage and strength.