2chiqs:I really believe that the emotional manifests itself in the physical and this is your body's way of saying "Holy sh*t, this is a lot to take in!!" Kind of coming from the inside to the out where it is manifesting itself in migraines (stress). I think you are finding your strength and are coming to a lot of decisions with boundaries etc. and I know it is causing anxiety, so does your body
Which boundaries are super non negotiable? And what would you be willing to negotiate now that there would be two of you?