We have not had the R talk. I don't bring it up, and neither does she. I figure she's not ready yet.
This evening I have a sailboat race, first race in a couple of weeks. My W wants to go out, but she agrees that I have this race at most once a week and she'll stay home. If you read my sitch, 3 weeks ago, she left my 3 girls home alone at night while I was racing so that she could meet up with a GF at a bar. We talked and she said she wouldn't do this again.
I would like to just have fun, but in the back of my head, I'll be worrying about any craziness that might be going on. I've told my W to invite her GF over -- she makes an excuse about the distance (only 15 minute drive). I think the real reason is at the bar there are other people too, including the guy she is infatuated with. My only solace is that he seems uninterested in my W.
