I love what Adinva said. We really have to be our own best friends.

I have often wondered what kind of woman is ok with a man who is cheating on his pregnant wife and barely seeing his 2 young children. Then the answer, not a very happy, healthy, wonderful person. Then when I found out their was more than one woman who found this behavior acceptable...yeah.

Once my H moved out, I could breath. It's been a glorious almost 3 months. My kids are really struggling. Mine are 4, 2 and 23 weeks. It's hard with little kids that need so much, but I also look at it like this. They won't remember us as a family that lived together.

Big HUGS!! This stuff is hard. But I have hope and the detirmination that this will not be the end of my happiness, but the beginning of something better. Who knows what, but better

M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D