Thanks for checking in on me KD. My work on my control issues: I have been studying a lot. I realize that most of the ways that I relate to people stem from my relationship with mother. She was a LBS and it controlled her and still does 30 years later. She was so wounded by her pain that anger controlled most of my childhood and verbal abuse was her method of communication.
I can relate as I too am controlling and was raised by my mother who was verbally/emotionally abusive. Parents D when I was 2. I will be watching your thread and hope the best for you! Listen to the vets!
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy