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Re: Losing Hope w/WAH Shiss #2340211 04/17/13 07:20 PM
Joined: Feb 2013 Posts: 539 V Verum Member
Verum Member V Joined: Feb 2013 Posts: 539	Originally Posted By: Shiss Thoughts? Should I keep this �as if� attitude up? Yes, keep up what you're doing. It seems to be working -- no guarantees, but with patience and continuation of acting as-if, being positive, and having a life, he may change his mind. Don't help with the D. ------------------

Re: Losing Hope w/WAH Positivespin #2340228 04/17/13 07:53 PM
Joined: Mar 2013 Posts: 180 USA S Shiss OP Member
OP Shiss Member S Joined: Mar 2013 Posts: 180 USA	I do! No complaints, just like any other job, good days and bad Me 29 H 28 M 9 T 11 No kids 2 dogs H moved in with parents 3/21/13 H wants a D 4/2/13 D Filed 4/5/13 Served 4/17/13

Re: Losing Hope w/WAH Shiss #2340229 04/17/13 07:54 PM
Joined: Mar 2013 Posts: 180 USA S Shiss OP Member
OP Shiss Member S Joined: Mar 2013 Posts: 180 USA	Thanks SA. I hope no encounters with him in the next few days, we'll see, every three days will be Friday as the day he shows up. Gotta keep up PMA Me 29 H 28 M 9 T 11 No kids 2 dogs H moved in with parents 3/21/13 H wants a D 4/2/13 D Filed 4/5/13 Served 4/17/13

Re: Losing Hope w/WAH Shiss #2340241 04/17/13 08:12 PM
Joined: Mar 2013 Posts: 180 USA S Shiss OP Member
OP Shiss Member S Joined: Mar 2013 Posts: 180 USA	Well everyone I have officially been served. I feel like this is the end. Me 29 H 28 M 9 T 11 No kids 2 dogs H moved in with parents 3/21/13 H wants a D 4/2/13 D Filed 4/5/13 Served 4/17/13

Re: Losing Hope w/WAH Shiss #2340255 04/17/13 08:40 PM
Joined: Sep 2011 Posts: 2,877 VA A adinva Member
adinva Member A Joined: Sep 2011 Posts: 2,877 VA	Sorry, that must not feel good. But, you have a plan, stick to it. Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.

Re: Losing Hope w/WAH adinva #2340284 04/17/13 09:59 PM
Joined: Mar 2013 Posts: 180 USA S Shiss OP Member
OP Shiss Member S Joined: Mar 2013 Posts: 180 USA	I do, act "as if", no contact unless he initiates and get on with my life with or without him. Doesn't mean I'm giving up, but after receiving the actual papers I can't change his mind, he has to. Me 29 H 28 M 9 T 11 No kids 2 dogs H moved in with parents 3/21/13 H wants a D 4/2/13 D Filed 4/5/13 Served 4/17/13

Re: Losing Hope w/WAH Shiss #2340286 04/17/13 10:09 PM
Joined: Feb 2013 Posts: 2,561 M makingmagic Member
makingmagic Member M Joined: Feb 2013 Posts: 2,561	(((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))) Today must be so tough... hang in there! M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)

Re: Losing Hope w/WAH makingmagic #2340294 04/17/13 10:28 PM
Joined: Jan 2013 Posts: 535 L LBH_LC Member
LBH_LC Member L Joined: Jan 2013 Posts: 535	I remember the day I was served. One of the worst days of my life. Hang in there, it does get better.

Re: Losing Hope w/WAH LBH_LC #2340297 04/17/13 10:31 PM
Joined: Mar 2013 Posts: 120 C ChrisN Member
ChrisN Member C Joined: Mar 2013 Posts: 120	Thoughts are with you Shiss... M: 38 W: 43 D: 4 T: 14 M: 7 BD & W left: 03/01/13

Re: Losing Hope w/WAH ChrisN #2340300 04/17/13 10:48 PM
Joined: Mar 2013 Posts: 180 USA S Shiss OP Member
OP Shiss Member S Joined: Mar 2013 Posts: 180 USA	Thanks everyone. You have all been a saving grace. Me 29 H 28 M 9 T 11 No kids 2 dogs H moved in with parents 3/21/13 H wants a D 4/2/13 D Filed 4/5/13 Served 4/17/13

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