Hello! 20 year marriage teetering... (part IV)

[bustingout]

AS, again you show amazing DB strength. I understand what you mean when you say:

I think I am going to back off of the going dim stuff and reach out to W a bit and see how it goes. I'm not talking about full-on pursuit, but just send her more texts and emails in a friendly way.

that is EXACTLY what i spoke to my coach about.

And I still remember the hurt from my parents divorce too. It has always been a a part of me. I know what you mean. Hopefully we can not let our kids know it too.

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