T1000 - Glad to hear your son transitioned well. It will not be fun not matter what happens.

Grizz - You are on to something when you say the WAW is taking advantage of my kindness. She has always been steering the ship in our relationship and feels that she can continue doing so without me objecting her choices. My children's well being will come before hers.

Stilllookingup - She is thinking about her own needs and not what is the best for the boys. They need to spend as much time as possible with both parents, mathematically that would be 50/50. I am only asking for whats fair.

Her requesting me to leave is another want that in reality would not be in the best interest for the children or us financially. We have trouble making ends meet with us both under the same roof. Something is clouding her judgement and I really hope the fog lifts soon before the courts get involved.


H 37
WAW 32
S 4 (Autistic)
S 2
Together 11 years
Married 6
Bombshell Dec 1 2012
House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.