I read somewhere in a thread of a spouse in MLC that woke up in the morning and was more normal and friendly but by evening was cold and rude.
My W is like this. She woke up in the morning, very talkative, suggesting things that we could eat that evening. Now, this evening won't discuss it. Apparently I can eat what I want. I think it's because she wants to not feel the pressure of eating when I do, it's almost her space / being individual issue. But, why talk about it in the morning and change come evening time.
To be honest her attitude stinks in the evenings, its more like it was before BD. no eye contact, one word answers, disagreeing with everything, not wanting to be part of anything I do, ie cooking etc. its very hard to still feel love for her. It's the future of the kids that keep me fighting at times like these. She walks around like she is living on her own, and like I am not here and no longer matter. So much for the I still love and care do you!
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.