Wife said she was done!

[Grizz]

I don't want to sound mean here but this is the path that she has chosen. She loves her kids and that is great but so do most people. It sounds like you do too. You have a right, a want and a need to see your kids just as much as her. It will be hard on everyone involved, no doubt about it. But, why do you feel that you have to be the one to make all of the concessions? I think that the WAS will sometimes take advantage of the LBS knowing that they want to stay together and the LBS will sometimes give more and be a doormat with hopes of "winning" the WAS back. Protect yourself. Ask for what is FAIR. Keep a calm and level head tonight and good luck.