Originally Posted By: tnmom66
I want him to not go out of his way to play childish games with me.

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I am not new to coparenting/parallel parenting. I have 2 teenagers with my ex-husband and I have never had the kind of problems

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I haven't figured out what his problem is. But he's got a problem.


This really sounds like a relationship problem between him and yourself.

The only way to get to an appropriate co-parenting relationship is that the two of you communicate well.

Do you have ANY idea what he wants, other than your assumption that he's playing games and wants you to chase him?